People don't talk about cancer. Perhaps that is better stated: people
don't talk about disease or dying. I'd like to give you fiar warning
that this play may make you uncomfortable if you have had an experience
with cancer. And I'll follow up with a suggestion: maybe that's okay,
maybe that's what the play should do. Sometimes we need tugs at our
hearts to make us consider unresolved issues in our lives. Cancer changes
people's lives forever, but seldom do people talk about it. Because
people are embarrassed, hurting, or scared, the issues with which people
grapple when dealing with cancer become internalized and sometimes never
reach closure. One person I spoke with shared his fear of getting sick
again, even though he has been in remission for about ten years: "Whenever
I get a cold or anything, I immediately think, 'Could it be cancer again?'
It's crazy, but that's my constant fear."
Since Messiah College is a Christian community, the people I interviewed
have dealt with cancer from their Christian perspective; they have found
their strength in the Almighty and wheir peace in the Wonderful Counselor,
thought the journewy has been anything but easy. Their stories gave
me courage to face the struggles that I anticipate in my life, for certainly
no one breezes through life without some serious difficulty.
But Butterfield's Joined at the Head is not immediately about
cancer. Much like Margaret Edson's Pulitzer Prize-winning Wit,
this play holds cancer as a gateway to larger questions of mortality;
in Wit, these questions are explicitly metaphysical, while Joined
and the Head poses much more quotidian concerns. Both plays question
the ways in which post-modern women spend thier time and expose the
sad results of choosing to live without strong interpersonal relationships.
Another issue that Joined at the Head shares with Edson's Wit
concerns the role of comedy in dealing with something as tragic as cancer.
Does comedy have any place? I challenge you to see the play from Maggie's,
Butterfield's and my perspective and let comedy and tragedy intermingle
in drama as they do in life. Reach out to gain someone else's perspective
on your situation, perhaps even another's perspective on yourself. ---
Dani
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