
These are fundamental ethical principles of
anthropology, also found across many other disciplines.
And they come from the Christian tradition
as well. In the Bible, the body is a metaphor
for the Church, with each person contributing their part to the whole, for God’s household, in
which each person has a role in the family. These
are welcome challenges to paternalism, the notion
that the “haves” should give to the “havenots.”
When we work toward justice together,
we find that each person has much to give, each
is in need of receiving blessings from others, and
we are all changed.
Really, it’s a lot like that episode from “The Brady
Bunch” when Greg wanted to record an album
with his five siblings. Peter’s voice started to
change, and he panicked about letting down his
family by singing poorly. At the last minute they
wrote “When It’s Time to Change,” a new song
that featured — rather than trying to hide —
Peter’s changing adolescent voice. At performance
time the brothers and sisters all swayed
in time to the music, Greg in his fringed suede jacket and Cindy in her pigtails and white go-go
boots.On the chorus Peter crackled, “When it’s
time to change you’ve got to rearrange / Who
you are and what you’re going to be.”
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the nature of positive change. Whether it’s an anthropologist
working as part of a team or a boy in a family
band — when it comes to change, community
matters. Peter had siblings, parents, and a
devoted housekeeper to help him handle life’s changes. The Proverbs 31 woman had a family,
and she had meaningful relationships with both
the rich and the poor people in her town. Both
as an anthropologist and as a mother, I rely on
trusted friends and colleagues to help me find
my way.
Change is inevitable and ongoing. The
Proverbs 31 woman seems to have adeptly
handled the continuing changes of everyday
life as well as broader changes in public life,
though I have to believe she had her bad days
too. Peter’s voice changing was inevitable,
though it still took him by surprise. And my
applied anthropology was done in contexts
of ongoing change in the lives of my research
participants and their social worlds.
Sometimes I’m bold in the face of change,
at least when it’s a diaper that can be changed in
20 seconds (give me 30 if the boy is wiggling).
But change with more profound implications— like reducing social inequality or improving
the environment or being calmer in my parenting— takes longer.
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“We are invited to participate in change, but we aren’t in charge of change. Rather, there is a very good theological concept to keep in mind when we face change: God is in the long, and sometimes painful, process of transforming and redeeming the whole of the Creation.”
—Jay McDermond, professor of Christian ministry and spirituality, director of the
Sider Institute for Anabaptist, Pietist, and Wesleyan Studies
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The kids
didn’t need an anthropologist; they had Mrs.
Brady and Alice there to cheer them on and help
solve their dilemma. It’s easy for me to think I’m more like Peter
Brady than the Proverbs 31 woman. Like Peter,
I often respond to change with worry, embarrassment,
or fear. But when I take a closer look,
I see some common elements between these
disparate things — anthropology, Peter Brady,
the Proverbs 31 woman, Malinda, Courtney,
and myself — that speak to
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Hope emboldens us to work
toward change that won’t be completed in our
lifetimes. Love motivates us to try to improve
conditions of life for other people in our world.
Faith helps us work with confidence, even
without seeing a clear path ahead. Faith, hope,
and love empower us to be like the Proverbs 31
woman — and Peter Brady — laughing at the
time to come. |